Sometimes dating can a lot of fun if you have the right people to go out with. The clubs and bars are overrated. No one ever meets anyone there. Most people only leave with the people that they came with. It behooves anyone that is trying to establish a decent relationships to look at the dating apps and sign up. I signed up for Skout, and my dating life has been all green lights and nothing but fun ever since.
I guess I am partial to dating apps like Skout because it makes it so much easier for me to weed out the ones I really don’t like. When you come to a bar and meet someone face to face they are reacting purely to the concept of physical attraction. If they are attracted to you they are going to lie about the little things and everything in between to make the connection. A lot of time is wasted when you discover that this person that you have been building your interest in isn’t the one for you. That may be the reason why Skout has stood out. It allows me to pick the social drinkers, non-smokers and avid readers. I can find someone that has these same interests on Skout. There is no race to the finish line when I am Skout. I am just trying to reach like-minded people that are into the same things that I am into. In my honest opinion I believe that most people that are having a hard time in relationships are doing so because they just don’t have a process for weeding out the bad fits. I am a believer in maximizing time, and dating apps will help me do this.
The tricky thing about dating is that it only allows you to find out bits and pieces about people over time. It is going to make a lot more sense to actually put yourself in a position where you can meet multiple people at different stages in time. This allows you to stagger your dates and get to know several different people at one time. This is the magic that comes with trying out dating apps. You may not be physically present, but you can open the doors to many different dating opportunities simultaneously. This is something that you cannot do if you are simply going out to bars to meet people. You have to talk to one person at a time. With online dating apps I can send messages to multiple people and wait for a response. Sometimes I message several people and only respond to the cleverest response.
When I sign up for several sites at once I can actually get to know people and hold multiple chat sessions at the same time. This is the power of online dating. It is such a time saver. It also keeps my secret with those that I would like to meet discreetly. I’m a private person so dating apps are ideal.